Love and obstacles June 17 2014
Yesterday does not seem real. As my husband and I spent the majority of our day crying in each other's arms in sadness, I found myself with a split second of excitment this morning while making his breakfast. I was making him toast to go with his eggs-to-dip when I thought to myself, " I can't wait to make him toast with Texas Toast", but then reality hit.
I am so sick and tired of hearing and reading U.S. citizens complaining about illegals. Look what happens to the majority of the people who try to do things the "RIGHT WAY". All a U.S. citizen needs to come to Mexico is a passport which is super easy, fast and cheap to get. However, for a Mexican to LEGALLY go to the states, they need not only a rather expensive passport, but also, an extremely expensive and extremely hard to get visa. My husband was rejected his visa because he is MARRIED TO A U.S. CITIZEN. Not only are we married, we are also HAVING A BABY TOGETHER! When the said they could not give him the visa because he has "strong ties" in the states, he then asked with tears in his eyes, " How am i supposed to meet my family there? How am i supposed to be there to witness my daughters birth?" They replied, "Sorry, but the law is very strict over there." (Keep in mind- whether or not you get the visa- the money is nonrefundable)
Now, I am definitely fine with bragging about our amazing love story. Not one marriage is perfect- including ours, but our love is stronger than any obstacle that has been or will be thrown our way. So many people have witnessed and walked beside us through this amazing adventure that is still just beginning and we are so grateful for each every one of you. It is such a shame that this beyond amazing man will not be able to meet OUR friends and family in the states at this time.
My husband is the most amazing, generous, handsome, loving person I have ever met. He is outrageously smart and he has the world's largest heart. He makes me laugh every day even when I can be extremely difficult to deal with at times, he makes me feel like I am the most beautiful girl in the world, he wipes my tears when I cry, he kisses my forehead and holds me close in his arms, holds my hand, opens and closes the door-ALWAYS, and he has showed me that fairytales, princes and princesses really do exist.
Not every person can say this, but I am honored to say I can. EVERY SINGLE DAY I FALL IN LOVE WITH MY BESTFRIEND OVER AND OVER AGAIN. EVERY DAY FEELS LIKE THE FIRST MOMENT I EVER LAID EYES ON HIM.
VISA O NO VISA, David Vzqz NUNCA QUIERO ESTAR SIN TI. ERES EL AMOR DE MI VIDA. ERES MI TODO CORAZON Y UNIVERSO. LUNA, CAJETA Y YO SOMOS MUY AFORTUNADOS DE TENERTE EN NUESTRAS VIDAS. ERES EL MEJOR HOMBRE, ESPOSO Y PADRE QUE HAN VIVIDO.
We want to thank our families and friends for being so supportive and helping us along the way. THIS IS NOT OVER. WE WILL NOT GIVE UP!!!! WE LOVE YOU ALL SO MUCH!
PLEASE SHARE OUR STORY!!!!! OUR BABY IS DUE IN OCTOBER 2014 AND MY HUSBAND WAS RECENTLY REJECTED FOR HIS VISA!!! I AM TRYING TO SPREAD OUR STORY SO PEOPLE ARE AWARE!! I AM NOT A SINGLE MOTHER AND I SHOULD NOT HAVE TO TRAVEL OR DELIVER OUR BABY AS SUCH!! THERE ARE PEOPLE TRYING TO ENTER THE STATES LEGALLY AND ARE GETTING REJECTED! AS A U.S. CITIZEN I HAVE RIGHTS AND I WANT MY HUSBAND AND FATHER OF MY DAUGHTER TO BE PRESENT!!! I HAVE LIVED IN MEXICO WITH MY HUSBAND FOR A YEAR AND A HALF BUT WE BOTH WANT OUR DAUGHTER BORN IN THE STATES!!! PLEASE SHARE!!!!